Live, Love and Lead !

Criticism is a badge of honour for philosophers, I believe!... hmmm… maybe ..if not fully, I do comply with the statement …partly for sure !

 My brother, Rajat, often criticizes me for giving vague and archaic philosophy about life and living and is of the opinion that philosophy does the same harm to mankind as engineers do to themselves by committing to Engineering ! Yooo bro…here’s another piece of shit …holy shit…Philosophical shit for you to read ! 

Thoughts are static ! But thinking is dynamic and real ! It is this thinking that translates itself into real-time actions and defines what we are. Sometimes one may hold good thoughts but it might not get cultivated into right thinking and pragmatic actions. Therefore, it is just not enough to hold a right thought, instead, this thought has to be driven through right processes to shape it into real-time thinking and hence a right action. Every thought is a ‘mantra’ and every mantra, whether it is right or wrong, will create a positive or a negative vibration corresponding to the nature of that thought. It is this vibration that cultivates itself into a right or a wrong action. Thus, a positive thought will elevate our consciousness and likewise, a negative thought will downgrade our consciousness to the lower energy vortex. Our consciousness is an amalgam of our thinking that we carry and the emotions that we experience. Therefore, every thought is an outcome of emotion. A positive emotion will plant itself into unconditional love, affection, compassion and joy whereas a negative emotion will create hatred, fear, jealousy and unhappiness.

So, before you read/debate/analyse/criticize about what I have written henceforth, do keep in mind for now at least that Love is no philosophy, it is :

 A pure mantra !  An unconditional positive emotion ! A positive thought ! The Root of inner consciousness !

Today, if Love succeeds in accordance with an individual’s prospects or aspects, he becomes James Bond and if it fails, he becomes a vagabond ! But the question is neither about becoming James Bond or a vagabond, nor it is about making Love successful or unsuccessful. The underlying question is about whether an individual becomes ‘bonded in Love’ in the true sense or becomes ‘bounded’ in mere agreements in the name of Love.

‘Love’ is already a success if the emotion behind it is true and ‘Love’ will always turn out to be an utter failure if this pure, unconditional emotion is mutated with conditions and doubts. If any positive emotion has to thrive with its full exuberance, the first and foremost pre-requisite is to believe in the bond that one carries. People leave bonds to die. Let us nurture every emotional bond that we are in and take care of it like a seedling so that it blossoms into something worthwhile. Admire, Appreciate, Acknowledge and Adore the Love that keeps you bonded with others.

We often squabble over matters that destruct the very nitty-gritty of bonds. Let us not weaken relations /relationships on petty issues. Understanding of heart more than just understanding the mind will, undoubtedly and definitely, provide fortitude. For an individual who carries a truthful emotion, it never matters what we love or whom we love. What really matters the most is the credibility that one shows towards the bond that has been built. Often people, lose individuals not because their love or emotion was weak but only because they lacked the will, the commitment and the firmness to carry that truthful bond together. One must have the tenacity and the resilience to stand firm in any ordeal and feel the power of truthful love. Every truthful emotion is in itself a powerhouse for any relation to flourish and bloom. I fail to understand that why people become victims under the banner of this impeccable word- ‘Love’ and even act as victors in its name, when love is neither a victory nor a defeat. It is an unconditional emotion, a right thought, a right mantra that is endless, ethereal and eternal.

We must understand that people need love when they deny it the most. People need acceptance when they face neglects and dejections throughout! We must never fail to express ourselves before the ones for whom we care and love the most! Every right emotion will direct its way towards a righteous action. Let us not testify or justify our love. Unconditional love doesn’t need certifications.  For any pure emotion to survive, the only requisite of paramount importance is ‘Faith and Faith alone’.

We must not defile the purity of this emotion by tagging relationships based on treaties as Love.  We search for reasons to love. We apply logics to love individuals but by doing so, we dwindle the logistics of love itself. Love is an irrational mode of experiencing rationality. Let us make love the only reason to love others.  A positive emotion will bind individuals together with firm commitments and joy whereas a negative emotion will bound them into mere formalities and distrusts.

Loving someone is never about winning over an individual on material grounds. Love an individual's individuality more than just loving the individual materially ! We have made life a profit and loss equation ! Let us go beyond this conventional written script and therein unfold the latent essence of every loving relation ! Life is indeed far bigger than just making and seeking for material profits all the time ! It is better to be at loss and love genuinely than to be at profit and remain emotionless and senseless !

Every thought emerging from a right emotion is unconditional and true ! Let us live by such bonds whose reins are held firmly by truth and faith !

Live to Love and Love to Lead ! 

Akshay Thakur